A Tribute to My Mom: The Woman Who Inspired My Journey

My Mom, Pamela Schroeder, on her wedding day September 17, 1977 (I wish she kept that dress and veil, but apparently she turned it into a table cloth).

A Journey of Love and Adventure

Have you ever met someone whose unwavering spirit and passion for life inspire you to chase your dreams? For me, that person is my mom. Her love for travel and commitment to hard work not only opened doors to incredible experiences but also shaped the very core of who I am today.

The Seed of Adventure

My mother was a trailblazer in the airline industry. Beginning her career as a gate agent for American Airlines while raising nine children, some still very young, she worked her way up to Admirals Club Manager and ultimately into an executive role. Her commitment and intention extended beyond her job; she orchestrated events like the March of Dimes Walk, making a real difference in our community and creating lasting family memories. Because of her work, my siblings and I had the incredible opportunity to travel the world together. I especially treasure our family singing during trips around Luxembourg, even performing for the Grand Duchy—a story I'll share another time! Each journey was a brand-new adventure, introducing us to unique experiences that ignited my curiosity and love for exploring. Her passion for discovery not only inspired my own wanderlust but also instilled in me a sense of exploration that still shapes my life today.

Luxembourg Kanner Kour aka “The Schroeder’s” Circa 1995

Becoming a Flight Attendant: Her Encouragement

During my early college years, I felt directionless and unsure of my path, not wanting to continue funding a degree I wouldn't use. It was then that my mom's steadfast faith in me became my support. She suggested I become a flight attendant, something I thought would be temporary, telling myself, "Just one year." Little did I know that 21 years later, I would still be flying. I clearly remember calling her from my six-week training in Dallas, crying because I was worried about affording food on such a small budget. Looking back, the starting pay and expectations for flight attendants were almost unjust. But my mom was there, offering unwavering support. Her emotional strength and encouragement throughout those difficult weeks were essential, reminding me of my ability to complete training and earn my wings!

The Woman I Am Today: Independence and Strength

Through her guidance, I learned that independence, intention and resilience are essential ingredients for success. My mom taught me without her even knowing, that chasing dreams is not just acceptable; it’s necessary. Her examples of hard work have been instrumental in shaping me into the confident woman I am today, navigating the skies and life’s challenges with that same intention and determination.

Santorini, Greece 2023


A Tribute to All Mothers and Those Who Miss Them

As we celebrate the beauty of motherhood, I want to take a moment to honor those who have lost their mothers, those who may not have had a maternal figure in their lives, and those who long to be mothers but face their own struggles. Motherhood comes in many forms, and the love and support we receive can profoundly shape our lives, regardless of how it manifests. We stand together in this journey of love and loss.

A Lasting Legacy

To my mom, thank you for being my guiding star and for inspiring me to embrace life’s adventures. Your strength, love, and encouragement have paved the way for my journey, and I am eternally grateful. Happy Mother’s Day!




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